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I Cheated On My Boyfriend And Got Pregnant

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But one day about 10 weeks ago i got into a huge fight with him at my work he later left my work and my ex came in and i told him to pick me up after work. Im scared i might lose him, because i love him pasionatly but it was just a mistake of the moment and i regret it. So, you had a fight with your boyfriend and then had sex with your ex-boyfriend, and now you are scared you are going to lose your current boyfriend? You are obviously still attracted to your ex-boyfriend and you used the fight as an excuse to have sex with your ex-boyfriend. The first thing you need to do is tell the truth to your boyfriend: that you cheated on him, that you are still attracted to your ex-boyfriend and that he may not be the father of the baby you are expecting.

How old am I: I'm 28 years old
My orientation: Hetero
What I prefer to drink: Absinthe

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Do you want to live this lie for the rest of your life? Is that the foundation you want to build a relationship on? If you cannot supportsomeone who can adopt can. I'll be that guy.

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Learn from this: You are a lying, cheating, irresponsible jackass - and you need to change that. Your boyfriend has a human right to know as well.

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And you said you already fight with one another, it wont get better. And some people are not meant to be, if this guy is as outstanding as you think he is you would lay it down and tell him the truth, then you would tell him you cheated, you would beg forgiveness. It's not something I'm proud of, and I deeply regret it. He wants to support the baby and would make a good father.

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I can't abort. You need therapy to get your shit straight, sociopath.

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Just raise another stupid fat mistreated American and watch your jerry springer and be happy in your spiritual trailer park. You made a mistake. But that's not your angle either, is it? I know different people have different views about this subject, but it's just a step that I personally can't take.

So, if you do what we both know you're going to do, you take this lie with you to your grave. Tell him, he deserves better. We'll listen, and if you want, we'll talk. We've had several fights. A mutually supportive community where deeply emotional things you can't tell people you know can be told.

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You owe it to the baby to know who the father is Some conditions are hereditary. Whether it's long-standing baggage, happy thoughts, or recent trauma, posting it here may provide some relief. For example, if your boyfriend and you have say And he'll probably learn this stuff in med school. And if you choose not to abort, you have an obligation to tell him the truth. We have been going through a rough patch in our relationship. You cannot lie to him to manipulate him into paying for your mistake. You should tell him.

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You cant love someone and cheat on them, as a guy and have had been cheated on, as soon the guy finds out, its like what ever you have ever told him was a lie. We aim to keep this a safe space. He started med school this year, and I've felt completely neglected. I would be willing to have the baby and give it up for adoption. Yes, for hereditary reasons.

I was raised in a family half stitched together, my father walked out on us at 14 beat my mom and cheated on her religiously, the point im getting at is if you are cheating, it will happen again, and if that's not his baby and he doesn't know that, that's twisted and if he ever found out later in the future it would deal even more damage. No good relationship is build on lies. Now, you just do what's next best to right. Your boyfriend has nothing to do with this.

Unfortunately, so will you. So when he finds out, it's all over anyway. Dedicate your jerk-ass self to becoming a better person, and if you are unwilling to tell these guys what's true then you keep it only between you and your therapist. Is that the foundation you want to raise on? Sort by: best.

I cheated on my boyfriend and got pregnant.

The other guy is required to pay for child support. The best thing to do would be to put this child up for adoption. Reality check. I can see this. You've good and truly fucked up, and you are a fucking asshole. You have expressed very little remorse about this, only that you regret getting caught. Continue this thread. If I tell him the truth, it will devastate him and maybe even hurt the baby.

Posted by 8 years ago. It is his human right to know about his baby and his human responsibility to take care of it. Get a fucking therapist. I cheated at a New Year's Eve party. And lady, IMO- If you out cheating, your not ready to haveget your shit straight and find ONE person you can love with ALL your heart and not cheat on and keep them, Your soul will be happier.

If you don't get a therapist, just Forget about everything. Found the internet! You were selfish, the other guy was stupid. Stop being awful. Whether you tell the father whichever one it is is up to you, but should be secondary to the well-being of that.

But the thing is, now I'm pregnant. Keep in mind that you may not be able to, depending on obvious genetic markers. My boyfriend doesn't know about the other guy. If he finds out the child is not yours in the next 18 or so years of its dependency upon you two, God help you. Nearly the worst thing that a person could possibly do, you have done. You can damn well support the baby with him in the picture. We both know you're not going to tell him the truth.

It's possible you and your boyfriend were never on the same

You're a shitty person, but your baby will be fine. Your boyfriend won't be much of financial help with the debt he's in with med school. Fuck doing what's right - we all know you're not going to do what's right. But if we can make this work, I think that's the best option. You are choosing the perceived most advantageous route for yourself.

I cheated on my bf and now im pregnant!

The child should not die because YOU fucked up. Created Oct 23, Top posts april 14th Top posts of april, Top posts Back to Top. With the fights and cheating happening, you both aren't ready for the. Well, if my gf got pregnant with another dude's baby, I would want to know about it.

OP, let me preface this exceedingly unpopular opinion with an observation: You acted like a stupid, childish, irresponsible puke. I can't support a baby on my own. More posts from the offmychest community.

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Abort because it isn't convenient? Tricking somebody into giving charity is incredibly, incredibly wrong. Ok, that being said: You have already made up your mind, haven't you?

Your relationship as you knew it is over. you can rebuild it on new terms, but it won't be easy.

How do you know it's the other guy's? I see. I cheated on my boyfriend and got pregnant. Or put the child up for adoption and make another family happy.